"He is a person who is driven by a ritualistic fantasy, and a key component of that is that he wants to have a relationship with his victim."
. . .
"His fantasy drives him to believe that this relationship is that of a lover, a partner, and he will quite often comment, in general terms, on the comfort and the needs of the victim."
[He] want[s] to finish the relationship on a good note.
"He perceives, his fantasy drives him to believe, that it's going to be a relationship where the victim by the end of it quite likes him, and had the circumstances been different, they would have been quite a good couple."